“Well, never matter. You matter. I’d like to know you whom I look at. Know, not love.” (106)
Toomer, Jean. Cane. 1923. New York: Liveright, 2011.
This message from Paul in “Bona and Paul”, reveals how the experience of loving someone and knowing someone are mutually exclusive. In many of the other stories, such as “Karintha” and and “Fern”, men idolize and claim to “love” the women, though the women remain enigmatic and their characters feel vacant in the story. None of the men truly desire to know these women, and once the women do express themselves, the men turn hateful and scorn them. Paul’s outlook is a breach in this theme as he wants to know Bona, which in turn is seemingly the most true way to connect. The sense that he will not know Bona overwhelms Paul and since he is unable to truly know her, she disappears. The inability to know one another and want to do so organically is why the women in the stories suffer such cruel fates.